Hey guys? I'm Júlio and I'm going to have a very serious conversation with you.
During this week, we asked on Instagram: what frustrates you most about sex? And there were several messages! “Premature ejaculation, without a doubt, was one of the subjects that stood out the most. And that's why I decided to address this in a special post for you.
There are several reasons why this is one of the most talked about subjects. But the biggest one is the negative impact it has on the life of man.
When he is unable to control his arousal and ejaculates ahead of time, there is a psychological, mental and energetic process that blocks him from other orgasmic possibilities in his life, in general. He ends up being an irritable, apathetic person with low self-esteem. When the subject is sex, it becomes more reactive, tends to avoid the subject and may even start to avoid sexual intercourse.
The root of this issue is that male sexual pleasure is traditionally centered only on the penis and worse, it is as if only he is capable of giving pleasure to a woman. Although the rational knows that most of the time, penetration alone is not enough for a woman to get there, it is difficult to say this to the unconscious.
After all, since we were little we were bombarded with those typical phrases:
"Becomes a man."
"Man doesn't do that."
But, it is possible (YES!) To get rid of this type of sexual dysfunction, to reprogram your brain for what really gives pleasure and to forget, once and for all, this damming creation.
Come with me, this is going to be our chat today.
What is Premature Ejaculation?
Premature Ejaculation, or also called Premature Ejaculation, is a very common male sexual dysfunction. It is directly linked to the time at which ejaculation is achieved and in 90% of cases, men come to ejaculate in less than a minute. It often happens with a small tactile stimulus or even just visual stimuli, without the need for touch.
There are many reasons for a man to present this picture.
But, some of them are:
- Bad masturbation habits
- sexual inexperience
Do I have Premature Ejaculation?
It is normal for variations in the time it takes a man to ejaculate. In specific situations, it is common not to have total control, when you do not have the proper training. For example: going too long without having sex can make this episode happen. Another very common thing is to have a shorter "duration" time in your first sexual experiences.
In order to have a complete diagnosis on the subject, it is necessary to follow up with a specialist, but normally for premature ejaculation to be considered, this factor must be repeated, at least, in 75% of sexual relations.
But the point we want to reach is not only to prolong the sexual act, but to satisfy your partner and also leave satisfied during the relationship. Having control over your stimuli is directly linked to having more security during sex, knowing how to prolong the pleasure can bring a more satisfying experience for both you and your partner.
How to solve premature ejaculation?
There are several treatments for premature ejaculation. On the internet, we find several “miraculous” products out there. but be careful! For what they promote is not a definitive solution, but only a remedy for the problem.
Through Tantric Therapy it is possible to find a safe and practical way towards a healthier sexuality, treating these sexual dysfunctions. Because it teaches us to master our sexuality, so we increase our self-esteem, our emotional security and providing us with an active and complete sex life. Through it we have more control over our bodies, we learn to silence our minds and we discover several ways to control our feelings, such as anxiety, which is a great villain during sex, helping us to enjoy every moment.
Tantric massage is also a great ally in the treatment of premature ejaculation, it usually begins with a conversation with the therapist, who seeks to understand your needs and fears, so that you can make a better diagnosis of your case. Throughout the sessions, you learn to silence your mind and control yourself, making you feel the stimuli better and increase their intensity. You create bonds with your intimacy and become more and more secure and confident.
In particular, in our Tantric Therapy Training course you will find the technical knowledge to apply to yourself to deepen the connection with yourself and your body. In addition, it also learns how to give pleasure to your partner and to increase your intimacy as a couple, which is essential for female orgasm.
In addition to treatments, how can I improve my performance?
When we have sex, we have to think that sex is not just to satisfy us, it is a connection between you and your partner, a team effort so that both of you are satisfied and happy in the end.
With tantra we learn several ways to improve our sexuality and with this we end up having better results during sex. Ejaculating is not the only way to reach an orgasm, and there are several other types of orgasms that are hardly explored and often unknown to most men (if you want to know, take a look at this link.)
In addition, dialogue with your partner (even if casual) needs to be present. It is not a shame to expose what happens to you. Sincerity will make your partner more comfortable and until the situation is resolved, you can agree on other ways to satisfy it.
This is a very beneficial attitude to your relationship, as it generates trust and mutual support!
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